athically to the desires and needs of Jewish laity. From the comments of many colleagues it is apparent that Reform and Reconstructionist rabbis are increasingly seeking creative ways to be affirming and supportive of couples at the time of their ceremony. This may also explain why more and more rabbis are now willing to officiate with non-Jewish clergy, in spite of strong rabbinic pressure to declare this kind of ceremony out of bounds.

1Because of the comparatively small number of RRA members and the possibility of sampling error, care should be taken in drawing inferences from these numbers both here and in the data that follow.

2The total number of respondents, as well as the total number for each category, differs from the sum of CCAR and RRA respondents because four respondents belong to both organizations.

Summary of Rabbinic Center for Research and Counseling 1995 Survey

December 29, 1995 Irwin H. Fishbein, Rabbi, D. Min.

This survey has a threefold purpose:  1) to determine the present position of the Reform and Reconstructionist rabbinate on officiating at intermarriages, 2) to compare data with previous Rabbinic Center surveys and 3) to update the list of rabbis who officiate at intermarriages.  A questionnaire with four levels of participation and non_participation in intermarriage ceremonies and eighteen conditions of officiating was sent by first class mail to 1794 rabbinic members of the Central Conference of American Rabbis (CCAR) and of the Reconstructionist Rabbinical Association (RRA).  Of this number, 1651 are members of the CCAR and 167 are members of the RRA.  Twenty-four rabbis belong to both organizations.

 

Of the 710 respondents, representing a 40% response rate, 334 or 47% officiate at intermarriages under specified conditions, 274 or 39% do not officiate but are willing to refer to rabbis who do, and 102 or 14% neither officiate nor refer.  A comparison of CCAR and RRA respondents indicates that CCAR members officiate more frequently (48% compared to 38%) but that, when  categories of officiation and referral are combined, 89% of RRA members refer compared with 86% of CCAR members (see Table 1).

 

TABLE 1

COMPARISON OF CCAR AND RRA RESPONDENTS 1995

POSITION

 CCAR 

RRA

CCAR/RRA TOTAL

 #

 %

 #

 %

 #

 %

OFFICIATE

318

 48

 24

  38

334

 47

REFER

245

 37

 32

  51

274

 39

DO NOT REFER

 96

 15

  7

  11

102

 14

TOTAL RESPONDENTS

659

100

 63

 100

710[1]

 100

 

Of the 334 rabbis who officiate, 231 or 69% were willing to have their names on the list of C.C.A.R. and R.R.A. Rabbis Who Officiate at Intermarriages, while 103 or 31% requested that their names not be on the list.  The list contained 220 rabbis in 1990, 202 in 1986, 178 in 1982, 159 in 1978, 119 in 1973, 78 in 1971 and 61 in 1969.  Since 1969 the number of rabbis on the list has more than quadrupled, while the number of Reform and Reconstructionist  rabbis has not quite doubled (see Table 2).

 

TABLE 2

RESPONDENTS WHO OFFICIATE AT INTERMARRIAGES 1982-1995

 

POSITION

1982

1986

1990

1995

1995

 1995

CCAR

CCAR

CCAR/RRA

CCAR

RRA

CCAR/RRA

  #

%

  #

%

 #

%

#

%

#

%

 #

%

LIST

 178

 61

 202

 73

 220

 62

221

69

17

71

231

 69

NON-LIST

 115

 39

  76

 27

 135

 38

97

31

7

29

103

 31

TOTAL OFFICIANTS

 293

100

 278

100

 355

100

318

100

24

100

3341

100


Of the 710 respondents, 334 or 47% officiate, compared to 44% in 1990 and 50% in 1986 and 1982; 274 or 39% refer, compared to 38% in 1990, 32% in 1986 and 31% in 1982; and 96 or 14% do not refer, compared to 18% in 1990 and 1986 and 19% in 1982.  The historical data show that a small but a steady increase in the percentage of rabbis who are willing to refer to other rabbis and a corresponding decrease in the percentage of rabbis who do not refer (see Table 3).

 

TABLE 3

COMPARISON OF CCAR AND RRA RESPONDENTS 1982-1995

 

POSITION

1982

1986

1990

1995

CCAR

CCAR

CCAR

RRA

CCAR/RRA

CCAR/RRA

#

%

#

%

#

%

#

%

#

%

#

%

OFFICIATE

293

50

278

50

335

46

23

34

355

44

334

47

REFER

180

31

174

32

265

36

34

52

302

38

274

39

DO NOT REFER

109

19

100

18

129

18

8

13

141

18

102

14

TOTAL RESPONDENTS

582

100

552

100

729

100

65

99

798

100

710

100

 

Compared to the 1990 survey, there has been a 4% decrease in respondents who participate with non_Jewish clergy and a very slight decrease of 1% in those who officiate in churches where Christian symbols are visible.  However, two categories have changed significantly.  C.C.A.R. respondents who require a commitment to establish a Jewish home and/or raise children as Jews have decreased from 64% in 1990 to 42% in the current survey and those who require the rabbi to be the only officiant have decreased from 62% to 43%.  The present survey indicates that, while the percentages in these two categories have declined for Reconstructionist rabbis, the decline has been much more gradual than for Reform rabbis.  Reconstructionist rabbis continue to maintain a more traditional stance than their Reform colleagues with respect to these two conditions (see Table 4).

 

TABLE 4

      CONDITIONS OF OFFICIATING 1982-1995

 

SELECTED CONDITIONS

1982

1986

1990

1995

CCAR

CCAR

CCAR

RRA